Assumptions that Hurt Leadership

If you’re like me, you’ve experienced those moments when you thought someone fully understood what was going on—only to discover later that they didn’t. It’s frustrating, isn’t it? You thought you were clear. You thought you’d explained everything well. But the reality is, the things left unsaid are like empty boxes, and people will fill…

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What If Your Metrics Aren’t Telling the Whole Story?

In ministry, education, or any faith-based organization, leaders are often drawn to measurable outcomes. Attendance figures, donations, website visits, or enrollment numbers—these metrics seem to provide a clear gauge of success. But what if these metrics aren’t telling the whole story? We consistently stress to the organizations we work with that while metrics can be…

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What Donors Wish They Could Say Out Loud

Over the past few months, I’ve been in conversations with high-capacity donors involved in various ministries we work with. As a ministry consultant for many years, I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside many influential leaders and donors who have supported large fundraising and ministry initiatives around the world. Through these experiences, I’ve heard these…

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What is the biggest need most ministry leaders have?

The answer might be different that you’d expect. Years ago, we conducted an informal survey with ministry leaders, specifically pastors in visible roles—teaching pastors, senior pastors, lead pastors, worship pastors. The survey had just one question, and participants were given a list to choose from. They could only pick one option. The question was: As…

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Embracing Our Unique Calling

When I was young, I was very shy. Growing up in a ministry family often required me to be in social settings, which made me uncomfortable. I loved my upbringing but found getting on stage intimidating. Despite feeling sick before performing, I participated because our family wore many hats in starting churches. Several factors contributed…

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The Power of Owning Our Mistakes

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve loved tinkering with things, taking them apart to understand how they worked, though I rarely got them back together quite right. I was always building something, whether it was with Legos or electronic kits. My curiosity sometimes got the best of me. Once, I took my dad’s wire…

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Embracing Change: Overcoming Inertia in our Lives

Overall, I consider myself someone who likes change. I enjoy being part of change and initiating it. However, for many people, the idea of change is very difficult or something to be avoided. Sometimes there are valid reasons for change, and sometimes there aren’t. Even when we know change would benefit us or others, we…

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Beyond Numbers: Embracing Transformational Goals in Ministry

In my line of work, engaging with ministries, I often find myself in conversations that echo a familiar tune. It usually begins with a sincere desire for growth and impact, expressed through concerns like increasing website traffic, expanding donor base, or boosting attendance at church events. These concerns are valid, but they also reveal a…

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Chasing Perfection Has Been Paralyzing Me

We’re constantly in motion, adapting to the ebb and flow of all different areas in life. For those of us whose minds hum with creativity, this dynamic dance is simply par for the course. Maybe it’s the ever-present whirl of ideas bouncing around in our heads, or the thrill of diving headfirst into uncharted waters…

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