When the Lights are Bright, but Hearts are Heavy

One of my favorite Christmas movies is Elf. It has everything that a person could want in a Christmas-themed movie: humor, Christmas spirit, Peter Billingsley (Ralphie from A Christmas Story), Santa, Claymation, and a storyline that pulls on the heartstrings. It is a masterpiece of laughter, awe, and tears. But Elf is more than these,…

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Pastor Is a Verb, Not a Title

I want to take a detour from strategy and communication today and talk about a concerning observation. It’s something I’ve been noticing for a while in churches and ministries. There is a philosophical, psychological, and spiritual intersection that is leading pastors to a place that I believe is unhealthy and even dangerous for the future…

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Does it Seem Like Everybody Is Mad About Something?

Is it just me, or does everybody seem mad about something lately? Politically, people are mad. Socially, people are mad. Drivers on the road are mad. Geopolitically, people are mad. Friends are mad at each other. I know this isn’t a new problem. This is part of the whole human condition. Our nature that we…

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Your Greatest Asset Isn’t What You Think It Is

If there’s one thing I’ve noticed from growing up around ministry work and those occasional high school English classes, it’s this… a story usually does one of three things: it informs, entertains, or persuades. But a good story? A good story does all three. And the best part? You don’t have to be a professional…

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When Conflict Isn’t the Problem (Miscommunication Is)

So many times when we get into conversations with ministries about communication, we end up talking about something else entirely: conflict. Sometimes it’s rooted in misunderstandings. Other times it’s tied to ego, territory, or unresolved relational dynamics. The truth is, conflict can show up in ministry settings more often and more intensely than in typical…

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Are We Just Doing Church, or Actually Becoming the Church?

Imagine This With Me… It’s early Sunday morning, and your alarm is going off.
 Beep. Beep. BEEEEEEP. 
You forgot to turn the ringer down last night, and now you’ve been ripped from the best sleep you’ve had in days. You’re groggy, a little irritable, and definitely not in the mood for chirpy notifications, or anything…

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